What is Vibrant Living?

For BobbieJo, author of The Budget Bites Bible, a whole-life approach to saving money on groceries while living vibrantly means striking a balance between budgeting and nourishing your body, mind, and spirit.

Mindful Lifestyle Choices

Key aspects of vibrant living include mindful lifestyle choices, long-term sustainability, healthy and vibrant eating, stress reduction, and budget-friendly decisions. By staying present, you can curb impulsive buying and focus on selecting foods that nourish your body and align with your values. You might find yourself appreciating the origins of your food or choosing items with less environmental impact.

 

Choose Sustainably Produced Meat:

  • If you eat meat, opt for chicken or pork, which usually have a smaller environmental impact than beef or lamb.
  • Look for labels like "grass-fed," "pasture-raised," or "regeneratively farmed."

 

Plant-Based Focus:

  • Fruits, Vegetables, Grains, and Legumes: These generally have a smaller carbon footprint compared to animal-based foods.
  • Plant-Based Proteins: Consider tofu, lentils, chickpeas, and beans as alternatives to meat.

 

Sustainable Seafood:

  • Choose certified options like those labeled MSC (Marine Stewardship Council) or ASC (Aquaculture Stewardship Council). Avoid overfished species
  • Stop buying farm raised salmon.

 

Locally Grown Foods:

  • Reduce transportation emissions by choosing foods grown closer to home. Farmers' markets and local co-ops are good places to shop.

 

Seasonal Eating:

  • Choose produce that's in season to avoid energy-intensive storage or imports (tariffs). Seasonal foods are often fresher, too!

 

Minimal Processing:

  • Highly processed foods typically require more energy and resources to produce. Focus on whole, minimally processed items.

 

Organic and Regenerative Options:

  • These farming practices improve soil health, reduce chemical use, and can capture carbon, making them environmentally friendly choices. 

 

Cut Down Food Waste:

  • Plan your meals, use leftovers creatively, and store food properly to extend its shelf life. 

Hunt, or buy meat from a butcher or farmer.

Fish local instead of buying fish that is shipped in that will have tariffs. Don't buy farm raised salmon.

Plant a garden or use decorative pots to grow food.

Seasonal Produce coming up:

Fruits: Strawberries, apricots, cherries, and rhubarb are starting to come into season. Citrus fruits like lemons and limes remain abundant.

Vegetables: Asparagus, artichokes, radishes, peas, spinach, and spring onions are in their prime. You'll also find fresh herbs like parsley, dill, and chives

Greens: Kale, Swiss chard, and lettuce varieties are plentiful during this time.

Budget-Friendly and Intentional Choices

A vibrant life doesn’t mean spending lavishly—it’s about finding joy in simplicity and getting creative with what you have. You’ll stick to your list and make thoughtful purchases, saving money while avoiding unnecessary items. Intentional choices and mindfulness help you focus on selecting foods that nourish your body.

While supporting local farmers, and local businesses, for every purchase decision I also look for long-term sustainability:

 

  • Reusable Items: Invest in reusable containers, bags, and utensils to reduce waste and costs over time. 
  • Energy Efficiency: Use efficient appliances like pressure cookers to save on cooking energy.
  • Keep Learning: Stay curious about recipes, deals, and ways to stretch your grocery budget without compromising health or enjoyment.
  • Share what you learned or made with others to keep the positivity flowing.  
  • Community Sharing: Swap or share excess garden produce or cooked meals with neighbors to build relationships and reduce waste.
  • Wellness Activities: Pair your healthy eating with affordable activities like walking, yoga, or dancing to live vibrantly.

 

Stress Reduction and Gratitude

Instead of rushing through the store or getting overwhelmed by the choices, mindfulness allows you to breathe and stay calm, making the experience less stressful. Mindfulness fosters gratitude for the abundance available to you and the effort it takes for food to reach your table. It’s a beautiful way to connect with your meal before you even cook it. When practiced, mindfulness can transform even mundane tasks into moments of peace and purpose.

Here are some great ways to practice mindfulness:

  • Focus on Your Breathing: Take a few minutes to sit/stand quietly and pay attention to your breath. Notice the inhale and exhale, feeling the rhythm without trying to change it.
  • Engage Your Senses: Tune into your surroundings by focusing on what you can see, hear, feel, smell, and taste. This helps anchor you in the present moment. If you enjoy smells and are near produce, floral, or candle areas these are great spots to anchor yourself.
  • Mindful Observations: Choose something simple, like a piece of fruit or a cup of tea, and examine it closely. Observe its color, texture, and scent as if you're seeing it for the first time
  • Body Scan: Take a moment to mentally scan your body, starting at the top of your head and moving downwards. Notice any areas of tension or relaxation. Breathe releasing it into the ground transmuting it. 
  • Label Your Thoughts: As thoughts arise, acknowledge them without judgment. You might think, "I'm worrying" or "I'm planning," then gently return your focus to the present. Stay in the moment.
  • Gratitude Practice: Reflect on things you're grateful for, no matter how small. This shifts your attention toward positive experiences. I am grateful for having this position, so I can prepare the food that keeps my family healthy and connected.
  • Mindful Movement: Engage in slow, intentional movement like yoga, tai chi, or even a mindful walking, paying attention to the sensations in your body.  (I practice mindful walking)

 

Starting with just a few minutes a day can make a big difference. Over time, you can extend your practice and incorporate mindfulness into everyday activities like eating, walking, or even doing chores.

Spring is here!

Start a garden and grow your own food!  Use the seeds from your vegtables or the tops of your carrots to plant in the garden!

Online Shopping & Mindfulness

Online shopping doesn’t have to feel detached or hurried. With mindfulness, it becomes an opportunity for thoughtful engagement and self-awareness. 

Incorporating variety and intention into your daily life can truly make it vibrant and fulfilling.

 

  • Set a Purpose: Before browsing, clarify your intentions—are you buying essentials, treating yourself, or researching options? This helps focus your time and energy.
  • Pause Before Purchasing: When you find an item, take a moment to reflect. Ask yourself: Do I truly need this? Will it add value to my life? Does it align with my budget and values? This has saved me hundreds of dollars.
  • Limit Distractions: Create a calm, focused environment. Avoid multitasking or rushing through your purchase to stay fully present. 
  • Engage Your Senses: Though you're not physically interacting with items, pay attention to the descriptions, images, and reviews. Appreciate the design, function, or effort behind the product.
  • Practice Gratitude: Acknowledge the convenience of online shopping and the effort it takes to deliver these goods to you. Gratitude can counter impulse buying and encourage thoughtful choices.
  • Budget Awareness: Mindfully stick to your budget by checking your cart and ensuring everything aligns with your needs.

These simple acts have brought abundance into my life faster than any method I have ever tried. 

Simple Acts of Self Love

Incorporating variety and intention into your daily life can truly make it vibrant and fulfilling.

Here are some ideas to energize your days and show yourself some love:

 

  • Cultivate Creativity: Try your hand at painting, writing, photography, or playing a musical instrument. Creative activities can unlock new ways of expressing yourself.
  • Engage with Nature: Spend time outdoors—hiking, gardening, or even just stargazing. Connecting with nature can be incredibly grounding and refreshing.
  • Learn Something New: Pick up a new skill, like cooking a new cuisine, learning a language, or exploring a different field of knowledge. It keeps your mind curious and active.
  • Prioritize Relationships: Invest in meaningful connections with friends, family, and your community. Shared moments often become the brightest highlights of life.
  • Focus on Well-Being: Practice mindfulness, yoga, or meditation. Combine that with regular exercise and a balanced diet to nourish your body and mind.
  • Volunteer or Give Back: Helping others through volunteering or small acts of kindness brings a sense of purpose and connection.
  • Plan Adventures: Big or small, adventures add a spark of excitement—whether it’s a spontaneous road trip, exploring a local café, or attending a community event.
  • Embrace Playfulness: Allow time for fun and laughter. Play games, explore hobbies, or do something light-hearted just for the joy of it.
  • Reflect Regularly: Keep a journal to reflect on your experiences, gratitude, and personal growth. It can deepen your appreciation for life.
  • Create Moments of Rest: Vibrancy comes not just from action but from moments of stillness and rest, meditation, allowing you to recharge.

The Next Step in Vibrant Living Means You Are Connected to Everything

Be committed it's the most important relationship you will ever have.

Week 1:

Begin by setting aside 15 minutes of uninterrupted “me time”—no electronics, people, pets, or any distractions. Do something you truly love, read, take a bath, paint, shoot hoops, have a cup of coffee and enjoy it in your hands and the taste.  This is your dedicated time to focus solely on yourself. If 15 minutes feels too long at first, start with 5 minutes and gradually work your way up to 15 minutes. Aim to do this at least twice during the first week.


Weeks 2–4:
After each self-care session, take a few minutes to reflect on your experience and write down how you felt in a dedicated journal. No emotion is too small; every feeling is valid and worth noting. Use these weeks to build both consistency and self-awareness with daily sessions. Gradually extend your session duration as you become more comfortable.

 

Beyond Week 4:
Keep increasing the length of your sessions until you can achieve at least one uninterrupted hour of self-care per week. Once you consistently reach this one-hour mark in your routine, you’ll be ready to move on to the next step.

Breathwork

Breath work is a mindful practice that uses intentional breathing to help calm your mind, reduce stress, and improve focus. 

 

Find a Comfortable Space

Choose a quiet spot: Sit or lie down in a place where you won’t be disturbed.

Relax: Close your eyes, relax your shoulders, and take a moment to settle in.

 

Start with Diaphragmatic Breathing

  • Hand placement: If it helps, place one hand on your belly and another on your chest.
  • Inhale deeply: Breathe in slowly through your nose. Notice your belly rising more than your chest.
  • Exhale fully: Breathe out slowly through your mouth, letting your belly fall. This deep breathing helps fully oxygenate your body.

 

Try Box Breathing (4-4-4-4 Technique)

  • Inhale: Slowly breathe in through your nose for 4 seconds.
  • Hold: Keep the breath in for 4 seconds.
  • Exhale: Slowly release the breath for 4 seconds.
  • Hold: Pause and hold your breath (with empty lungs) for another 4 seconds.
  • Repeat: Continue this cycle for several rounds. You can adjust the count if needed as you gain comfort

 

Focus on Your Sensations

  • Stay present: Notice the cool air entering your nostrils and the gentle warmth as you exhale.
  • Mind wandering: If your thoughts drift, gently redirect your focus back to your breath without judgment.

 

Practice Regularly

  • Start small: Even just 5 to 10 minutes a day can be beneficial
  • Build gradually: As you grow more comfortable, extend your practice to longer sessions.

 

Reflect: Notice how you feel during and after your practice. Breath work is as much about being mindful of your body's sensations as it is about the physical act of breathing.

Gifts called Meditation & Visualizations

Your own soul knows exactly what you need and it guides you through visualizations and meditations with breathwork. With eight different types of meditations and visualizations, you can connect with your soul to get the answers you have been looking for.

Mindfulness Meditations

Concentration Meditations

Guided Meditations

Loving Kindness Meditations

Body Scan Meditations

Movement Meditations

Zen Meditations

Transcendental Meditations

Connecting to Source, God, Universe, I AM,  Mother Earth, Sky, Animals, & Trees, 

Everyone has a connection to something or someone.  Let's explore our connections.  When is the last time you took your shoes and socks off and walked barefoot in the grass.  Did you feel the cool earth on the soles of your feet.  Can you visualize roots going down into the earth anchoring your energy in?

  • Prioritize Relationships: Invest in meaningful connections with friends, family, and your community. Shared moments often become the brightest highlights of life.
  • Volunteer or Give Back: Helping others through volunteering or small acts of kindness brings a sense of purpose and connection.
  • Spend time in nature connecting to your higher/center power
  • Attend church or a cultural function to learn about a Heritage or belief system to see if it aligns with your core beliefs.

How do we all Connect to each other?

Connections are not just about people, or cultures but a vast network that is more sophisticated than I ever thought possible.  From Fungi to the internet connection is faster than ever dreamed possible (feeling or thought).  Trees communicate with other trees in the forest through a fine webbing underground of fungi lines that someone 2 miles away has entered the forest and they are walking in their direction.  That is impressive!  Connections come in all sorts of ways from traditions, touch, time spent together, food, community to animals, and nature. How do you connect to others?  Through energy, thoughts, body language, writing, a touch.  Think of all the ways you connect to the ones you love, prayer, text, money, ....keep going... there are so many ways. Do you know how someone likes to be connected verses communicated to? Connection is powerful. You feel seen, heard, appreciated, and loved How do you like to be connected? 

Ask yourself What am I learning ...

It started after an argument. In my head, I was replaying the hurtful things that had been said, along with all the unkind thoughts I had toward the other person. I didn’t say them out loud, but the feelings were heavy. I walked away, angry and upset, retreating to another room. Their words had made me feel like I wasn’t enough—a feeling that had become all too familiar.

But then I stopped to reflect: What was I truly learning here? I realized it wasn’t about me. This wasn’t my journey to carry—it was theirs. In this moment, I was learning patience. I was learning how to stay calm. I was learning how to hold onto love and peace even in difficult situations. Most importantly, I was learning to master my own emotions and thoughts.

The other person had been angry—not at me, but at their own struggles, their day, and perhaps even their past. I had just been a convenient outlet for those emotions. What I did in the moment, while not perfect, was good enough—and that was enough. I reminded myself that I was loved by them, despite the tension. And above all, I knew that God, my higher power, loved me exactly as I am.

So, I went back. I took the time to clean the area more thoroughly, meeting their expectations. In the end, they apologized for taking their frustrations out on me. It wasn’t just an apology—it was a reminder of the love and humanity we share, even in the most challenging moments.

So, when you're confronted by someone stop and ask yourself what I am learning right now. You might surprise yourself.  The more you practice this exercise the deeper the answers and the more you learn about yourself and dynamics with the people around you.

Once your filled with Gratitude

Once your filled with gratitude ... you never want to lose it.  If you do it's something you want right away. Like my morning coffee I really need it, or I have a hard time functioning...lol That's when I usually get a sign that I really never lost it.  It just looks like I did.  Adjust my perspective and there it is! How do you practice gratitude? Better yet what are you grateful for? 

Gratitude Journal: (optional)Each day, write down three things you're grateful for. They can be big or small—like a sunny day, a kind gesture, or a delicious meal. (I personally don't use a journal

Express Thanks: Tell someone why you appreciate them. A heartfelt "thank you"—whether spoken, written, or texted—can strengthen relationships and brighten someone's day.

Reflect on the Present: Take a moment to pause and notice the good things around you. This could be your morning coffee, a blooming flower, or simply the comfort of your home.

Practice Mindfulness: Focus on the present moment and acknowledge the positives in your life right now, even during challenging times.

Gratitude Jar: Write things you're grateful for on small slips of paper and put them in a jar. Over time, you'll have a collection of moments to revisit when you need a pick-me-up.

Shift Your Perspective: When faced with difficulties, try to find something positive or a lesson learned in the situation.

Volunteer or Give Back: Helping others can remind you of the blessings in your own life and foster gratitude.

Gratitude Affirmations: Start your day by saying or writing affirmations such as "I am grateful for the opportunities that come my way" or "I appreciate the kindness of others."

Nature Walks: Spend time outside and appreciate the beauty of nature—this can help you feel more connected and grounded.

End on a Grateful Note: Before going to bed, reflect on what went well during the day and what you're thankful for.

Through the right perspective you see all the possibilities.

Changing your perspective involves deliberately questioning your current beliefs and opening yourself up to new ways of thinking. Here are some steps and strategies to help you shift your viewpoint and see all the possibilities for change:

 

My personal strategy: I simply view this as a third person without bias and ask myself how they would view it.

 

  • Reflect on Your Beliefs:
    Take some quiet time to identify deeply held assumptions. Write them down and consider questions like, “Where did I learn this?” and “Is it based on facts or feelings?” This self-reflection is the first step in understanding how your perspective was formed

 

  • Practice Cognitive Reframing:
    When faced with a challenging situation, try to consciously reframe negative or limiting thoughts. Ask yourself, “What is another way to view this?” or “What might I be missing if I look at this differently?” This practice, often used in cognitive behavioral therapy, can gradually shift your thought patterns

 

  • Expose Yourself to New Experiences:
    Seek out new experiences, ideas, and conversations that challenge what you already know. Read books, listen to podcasts, or engage with people from diverse backgrounds. Exposure to different viewpoints can help you see the world—and your own thinking—in a new light.

 

  • Practice Empathy:
    Put yourself in someone else’s shoes. Try to understand their experiences and emotions. This exercise in empathy can help you appreciate a broader range of perspectives and soften rigid personal views.

 

  • Ask Questions and Listen:
    Engage in open conversations with others, especially those who disagree with you. Ask genuine, open-ended questions and listen carefully to their responses. Sometimes, simply hearing how another person thinks can be a powerful catalyst for change.

 

  • Mindfulness and Meditation:
    Practices like meditation can help create the mental space needed to observe your thoughts without immediate judgment. Over time, this mindfulness can make it easier to notice when you’re stuck in a particular mindset and gently guide you toward alternative ways of thinking.

 

  • Keep a Journal: (If you are not a person who enjoys journaling then don't)
    Writing down your thoughts and experiences can help track your progress over time. Periodically review your journal entries to see how your views have shifted, and which strategies have been most effective for you.

 

 

 

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